Monday, April 27, 2015

21 positive days. We are all unique.

When it comes to ourselves, there is no comparison. We are all unique. Don’t downplay that uniqueness by comparing yourself to others.

I started with a deadlift and I’ll finish with a deadlift. And a PB at that.

This is my 4×4 at 45.5kg (a touch over 100lb). Doesn’t seem all that impressive, does it? But I am roughly about the same length as that teeny 8kg bar and weigh a massive 40-ish kg (89lb).

Numbers are pretty cool, but they need to come with perspective.

I am very proud of myself today. I workout at home so I am very careful with my weights and progress deliberately slowly. I go up, I go down, but I’m always inching ever slightly forwards. It’s taken me about a year and a half to get here, and the future is looking pretty awesome.


 (originally posted on my old website)

Sunday, April 26, 2015

21 positive days. Self care.

I just checked my calendar and this is day 20.
Tomorrow is my last day for this little mental detox. It crept up quickly!

Today I woke up feeling decidedly under the weather.
Everything just feels a little ‘off’ and I’m pretty tired.

So a little time out for some self care is in order.
A nice cup of tea and just sitting outside in the peace and quiet with my book.
Hopefully enough to recharge a little before getting back to the usual duties of bathing children and cooking dinner.
And then I’m crashing into be.

It’s okay to feel off-colour every now and then. It’s normal.
Sometimes we just have to take a step back and chill out a bit.
By resting today I should be fine to get back to the normal routine tomorrow.
Always listening to my body and taking notice of how I feel.


 (originally posted on my old website)


Saturday, April 25, 2015

21 positive days. Acroyoga.


What can I say? The kid discovered me looking up acroyoga online and had to have a go – we have a little bit of practice to do I think! ;)

Me being more active these days means the kids are more willing to do stuff and try new things. We still struggle with the whole electronic devices thing, but when they are moving, it’s full steam ahead and just try to keep up!

 (originally posted on my old website)

Friday, April 24, 2015

21 positive days. Little muscles.

Just a little muscle:)

I like my muscles, I like getting stronger. And I like trying out new moves.

It’s all fun to me! These little muscles mean I can do things – more than just workout. I can shift timber around the yard, lift kayaks and jet skis, carry tired children, and just generally DO stuff. There’s no stiffness, no soreness, no out-of-breath. Nothing aches anymore (unless it’s DOMS after a particularly hard session, but that is not pain and it passes quickly) and there’s no niggling pain or danger of injury.

In order to build and repair these little muscles I also need to eat the food. Not ALL the food lol but enough to fuel my movement. I seem to be recomping just fine and getting stronger each week. It’s a slow process, but I like slow ;)

It all joins together to make a happy and healthy body. I eat to fuel my awesome and I lift to make my body work better. And it does.


 (originally posted on my old website)

Thursday, April 23, 2015

21 positive days. Flex those muscles.

Time to flex those muscles a little bit tonight.

I’m slowly getting stronger. Not in any hurry though, I intend to just keep on plodding along at my usual pace.

Still, it does feel nice to see actual muscle :)


 (originally posted on my old website)

Wednesday, April 22, 2015

21 positive days. Stand on your head.

When all else fails, stand on your head ;)



(originally posted on my old website) 

Tuesday, April 21, 2015

21 positive days. Calisthenics.

Oh look! I can still do it! Not for very long and not awesome form, but I still did a back bridge.

I was flicking through my Insta feed and saw @committed_jay (cool page btw, you should follow him!) doing one so I thought I’d see if I could. Years ago I could hold this for ages and bend in lots of weird ways lol

Not too shabby for a mother of 2 who will be turning 36 in a couple of weeks ;)

I might work on some of these calisthenics movements a little more often. It’s a nice confidence boost :)


(originally posted on my old website)

Monday, April 20, 2015

21 positive days. Back in the gym.

Back in the gym today!

And yep, when I’m trying to get a photo on my phone’s timer thing it’s pretty much guaranteed to chop my head off and be slightly lopsided ;)

I’ve changed a few things up – moved from front to back squats – and just took it easy-ish today.

I love lifting, I love the feeling of accomplishment and I even don’t mind the completely stuffed feeling at the end. Today’s session wasn’t overly calm (I like absolute quiet but obviously the munchkins are at home, so there were a few squabbles to sort out), but I’m glad to have got it done.

It was also very dark in the garage, so I moved a desk lamp in for extra light. I think the garage is next on the reno agenda, so maybe I’ll have a light then lol

 (originally posted on my old website)

Sunday, April 19, 2015

21 positive days. Taking time out.

Taking time out to chill in the child’s pose. Or ignore the world. Either one works perfectly fine.

One last stretch before bed while waiting for the boy child’s computer to shut down (it takes aaaaggges). Surrounded by the kid’s stuff. But at least the floor rug is clean and tidy ;)

This is my favourite pose. It’s just comforting and calm. And that’s always a good thing.

 (originally posted on my old website)

Saturday, April 18, 2015

21 positive days. Keep on trying.

Just keeping on trying.

Years ago I could do back and front flips and all manner of things on a trampoline. These days I’m kinda afraid of heights...

But I’m determined to start small and work my way slowly up. The kids are quite happy to give me some pointers ;)

Some of it comes back naturally, like landing properly. I think the whole tumbling in mid-air thing might take a little longer.

I’ll keep on trying.

(originally posted on my old website)

Friday, April 17, 2015

21 positive days. Experience new things.

Today was yet another day to experience new things. A boat ride across to Green Island was definitely an interesting experience. The kids had a bit of a rough ride over, but on the way back they were doing just fine ;)

It’s good to do new things and get out and experience all the world has to offer sometimes. We get so caught up in the humdrum of everyday life and routine. Shaking it up occasionally is probably a little necessary, even if it’s hard to do.

Home tomorrow, and while we will be glad to get home to normalcy, this has been a really wonderful holiday. Spending time together and doing stuff that we normally wouldn’t get to do. I think the kids will have a fair few photos and stories to tell when the get back to school.


(originally posted on my old website)

Thursday, April 16, 2015

21 positive days. A new dress.

Today I bought a new dress.

Something that wasn’t on sale, wasn’t from a department store and I bought it because my daughter said it looked pretty and my husband said it would look nice on me.

It’s not completely in my comfort zone, but I do like it. It feels so soft and I like stretchy material. It fits pretty much perfectly.

Now I just have to find the courage to wear it out somewhere….

(originally posted on my old website) 

Wednesday, April 15, 2015

21 positive days. My legs are tired...

A big day today, we’re all exhausted. Yes, lots of pictures of my not-so-camera-shy youngest :)

Today we walked far, a lot of the time in the rain. Up and down, on paths and bridges, on steps and rocks. And it was a lot of fun.

My legs are tired, but happy. Not once were we out of breath even with the boy setting a cracking pace (seriously the kid never stops).

My legs can carry me all day and keep up with this insanely active kid. I think that's pretty cool.

 (originally posted on my old website)

Tuesday, April 14, 2015

21 positive days. Active lifestyle.

Absolutely living and loving the active lifestyle and the chance to hang out in an awesome place. I think we were on the go pretty much all day today. We did the hike down to the esplanade twice, spending at least 2 hours there exploring both times.

We also did the required 4 laps in the 50m pool, swam in the other pools, went shopping and just did ‘stuff’ lol

It must be said that I did the 200m swim as well – I figured it wasn’t fair to make them do it and my sit on my backside and watch

I didn’t die – I did all 200m with just a couple of breathers. Not bad for a basic swimmer lol 


I even piggybacked the boy child part of the way home this afternoon. An awkward feat as he is getting so long and lanky as opposed to my short limbs ;)

I am completely stuffed and falling into bed very soon. But I’m sure tomorrow will bring more activity – rainforests are on the agenda! I’m not sure we’ll be wanting to leave…


(originally posted on my old website)

Monday, April 13, 2015

21 positive days. A role model.

‘Let’s do push-ups Mum!’

Becoming a role model for my kids in terms of fitness and being active is a weird thing to get used to. But it’s pretty cool when I think about it.

Our overall family lifestyle has done a complete turn around over the last few years. We are more active, the kids play a lot of sports and we’re always on the go. I’ve noticed it helps the kids to be calm and they are always happier and sleep better after a day full of physical activity. So I am always on the lookout for different things that keep both their minds and bodies engaged in a positive way.

We’ve spent the last few days on the go – at the zoo, at a crocodile farm, at the beach. Tomorrow they are looking forward to exploring our surroundings yet again. And more time in the pool. And I’ll be there every step of the way encouraging them to keep moving (until I need a rest, and then it’s totally siesta time!).

 (originally posted on my old website)

Sunday, April 12, 2015

21 positive days. My little family.

My little family is pretty awesome. Even this crazy kid.

I’m loving spending time with them this week, seeing new things and watching them experience it all first hand.

They may drive me up the wall sometimes, but I wouldn’t trade them for anything.

Currently this munchkin wants to be a chemical engineer. He’s 7, it’s likely to change lol

My girl wants to be a dietician or nutritionist and a swimming coach.

Love them to the moon and back:)

(originally posted on my old website)




Saturday, April 11, 2015

21 positive days. Happiness.

We have traveled to far North Queensland. Over two hours on a plane, and finding out way around unknown places.

Today ended up being a very good day. There are four pools here where we are staying, and we tried out all of them – laughing and being silly the whole time.

Time for me to go to bed, but relishing the peacefulness before I do. A nice little moment of happiness.

(originally posted on my old website)

Friday, April 10, 2015

21 Positive days. Strong.

I am strong and slowly getting stronger.

Progress doesn’t happen overnight, it takes time and patience, listening to your body.

I’m learning when to push harder and when to rest. Almost at 10 chin-ups in a row (3×8 at the moment), and pull-ups are coming along nicely too :)

(originally posted on my old website)

Thursday, April 9, 2015

21 positive days. Crazy hair.

Today is all about crazy hair.

I love my crazy hair, even if it drives me bonkers occasionally.

Some days it does it’s curly thing, some days it goes flat and other days it basically says ‘screw it, this is the best you’re gonna get’.

It’s getting cut tomorrow so it’s neat and tidy for our trip.

But today is all about the crazy. And this was before my workout… it got a little more curly and fuzzy after that ;)

I keep meaning to buy a decent headband but haven’t found one I like yet. Anyone know any good ones for working out that don’t cost a pretty penny? 

(originally posted on my old website)

Wednesday, April 8, 2015

21 positive days. Beautiful in my own way.

Today I have to acknowledge that it’s okay to do things for myself and I am beautiful in my own way.
I decided to dress up a little and went into town to have lunch with the husband. And then I went shopping. Well, I tried to go shopping… mostly I just walked and walked and looked ;) Shopping really isn’t my thing. Every time I give myself permission to spend money, I can never find anything to buy!

I think I look good in dark purple and black. Stretch skirts and tights are so comfy and I love my boots.

I rarely wear makeup but today I did wear BB cream (which I only discovered last year thanks to a friend – lets just say I’m a bit uneducated about such things lol).

I’m still on the lookout for a new dress though.

(originally posted on my old website) 

Tuesday, April 7, 2015

21 positive days. Love your body.

A shape. My shape.

I’m working hard to like it. But it’s strong and it can work hard.

This body has carried two babies to term, endured two c-sections and I’ve gotten my diastasis down from 5 fingers to 3 as of last check.

I will never have a flat & ripped stomach but I can still do stuff I love. I can hike with my kids, kayak around lakes and am slowly adding more weight to that bar.

Over the next 21 days I’m going to do my own little detox. A mental detox. I’m going to post something positive about myself each and everyday. To try and see this body differently. To learn to love my shape. A little reminder to myself that it’s okay to love your body. Just the way it is.

(originally posted on my old website)

Maintaining my weight loss

I’ve had a few questions lately about what I do, how much I eat, what I weigh etc. So here is a quick rundown on what I did and how I go about maintaining my weight loss and enjoy living my life (hint, it’s not all about eat super healthy or low calories).

Disclaimer: Please keep in mind I am insanely short. I also have a strange build with very short legs and narrow-ish hips. If you are a of average height and/or build and can’t get your head around my numbers, just ignore them… or multiply them by 1.5 ;) I have found that a lot of people who are even a just little bit taller don’t quite understand the smaller numbers. But it’s all good – my doctor is happy, I’m happy, and that’s all that matters.

At 4’9, I have a maintenance range between 39-40kg (85-89lbs), which is about a 19 bmi.
I got the wake-up call when I was creeping into the overweight range for my height (I was too embarrassed to weigh properly, so I guess-timated) and I lost a little over 10kg (22lb), which was about 20% of my starting body weight.

When you get told you’re almost pre-diabetic, your PCOS is going ballistic, can’t walk up stairs without being out of breath halfway, your ankles are always swollen and you need to wear a size of clothes that makes you look like you’re wearing a tent…. yeah, that’s a wakeup call. Regardless of that number on the scale being “so small” to an average person.

When I found MyFitnessPal (MFP), a calorie counting site, I started with the usual 1200 calories (0.5kg/week goal) that short people get, and didn’t enjoy that very much lol

I upped it to 1300 and then discovered intermittent fasting, and did a variety of 5:2 & 16:8, which allowed me to ‘eat more’ which was important for me psychologically (when following 5:2, you must eat your full TDEE on the non-fast days – for me that was about 1500-1600 at the time).

Intermittent fasting taught me how to recognize true hunger signals and realigned my thinking of serving sizes to a more realistic view. Calorie counting was also very beneficial with this too. Having to eat to maintenance on ‘off’ days, also taught me what a normal amount of food actually was.

Note, this was beneficial to me personally. Everyone is different.This just happened to slot in well with my mindset and fitted my lifestyle really well. Therefore, it ‘worked’ for me when I needed it to. I strongly encourage everyone to try different things until they find something that works for them, and just because something doesn’t/couldn’t fit your lifestyle, doesn’t mean it won’t for someone else. Everyone has to find their own path.

In terms of exercising, I started off just walking and then jogging with friends. I still walk a couple of times a week with those same friends.

Then I bought some Jillian Michaels DVD’s (30 Day Shred & Ripped in 30) and did those to get my base level of fitness up. They were a really good re-introduction to working out and helped me to gradually learn how to fit exercising back into my daily life. Any DVD or YouTube workout that you enjoy doing will do that – you just need to find one you like. My current favourite cardio videos are from Fitness Blender which are available free on YouTube.

And then I started lifting weights (New Rules of Lifting for Women) just before I reached my goal weight (which was actually 45kg/99lb, but I unintentionally kept losing while trying to figure out the maintenance thing), and I’ve been lifting ever since. I started very basic with little tiny dumbbells and bodyweight moves (Nerd Fitness is a really great resource for beginners) in my lounge room and added more as my confidence grew.

Looking back, I’ve actually weighed less in my adult life, but I’ve never been this small or fit. I can’t say enough about the benefits of some form of resistance training. When used in conjunction with a realistic calorie deficit, it literally shrinks everything and tightens it all up! Once again, it doesn’t have to be free weights. Find what works for you and what you enjoy and go for it.

Nowadays I have a weights set up in my garage and I lift 3x a week (following the New Rules of Lifting Supercharged program). I add in fun cardio at least 3x a week as well (at the moment swimming or doing stuff with the kids). All up, I probably do about 6-ish hours of ‘scheduled’ exercise spread out over the week. But I also make time to move throughout the day and am conscious of not sitting too long.

I don’t count calories any more, as that was part of my plan – I don’t want to have to do that for the rest of my life. For me, it was too all-consuming. I have a perfectionist personality when it comes to numbers and I can take it a little too far.

I also don’t follow a strict intermittent fasting lifestyle any more, but I have found that some days it seems to sneak up on me. I don’t freak out if something occurs and I don’t have time to eat breakfast/lunch/dinner/whatever – I just acknowledge that life happens and deal with it. My metabolism is just fine, thanks. Oh, and I’ve never been stronger in my life, so I must be doing something right by myself.

I have taken all that I have learned over the last few years and apply it every day. It’s still a work in progress, but it’s worth it :) My TDEE based on my average exercise amount is a little under 1800 (being so short sucks), but I know that appetite is not linear, just as weight loss is not. On any given day I may not be all that hungry, but on another I may be ravenous. It all evens out in the end. I eat foods that make me feel good, some days that means chicken and vegetables, other days it may mean a small slice of cake and icecream.

And I make the.best.muffins.ever.

The best thing I have ever learned in the last few years is this –

Eat food. Not too much. Mostly plants.

I also add, And move.

And that’s what I stick to.